Want to give up...

[StoicJ]

Maybe you can break your goal down into smaller pieces, with benchmarks along the way. You're probably really close to some kind of IT-based certificates. What if you could take a couple more IT classes (that would xfer to your BS goal), and get a cert? Then you're that much closer to an associates. Take a few more classes and you're that much closer to your bachelors.

Maybe talk with someone at a local CC or JC, and see what it'd take for you to get an IT Certificate. Could probably take online, or go to classes two evenings a week. My JC has 3-hour Saturday classes.

Yes, you're a long way from a BS, but I bet the Cert is right there, and the AA is pretty close. In a couple of years you could have both, at which time there should be even more options for BS degrees.