Dillema

[cookderosa]

I’m not sure if motarded is being that rude. In his first post I see him signing his name “respectfully, motarded” stating that he appreciates the help and feedback... Is the user uninformed about some aspects of CLEP such as the information not being updated in 6 weeks. Sure... but to say he’s extremely rude isn’t called for IMHO.
Cut the user some slack, realize he probably wishes he learned about CLEP, this forum, and what not several years ago, that he may have some buyer’s remorse as far as college goes, and that he’s pretty nervous about taking a test that most people going the traditional route think are “un-passable” and for the “really smart people.”
Also realize that passing this test is hinging on something big for the user. Whether it’s important to you or not that you graduate a quarter early and save some time and money... it is for this user. To be honest I'd be shocked myself to hear that I didn't need to study for a test. A&I Lit is a test that requires minimal to no study but it's definitely not the norm.
Have some grace and understanding. I’m not saying he could of worded things differently. What I am saying is that for US to say that he’s extremely rude and to include cutting sarcasm such as it’s too bad that motarded didn’t take a 6 credit CLEP on manners and etiquette isn’t called for. We’ve all been shown grace at some time or another and I’m sure we all have several instances where we said the wrong thing and regret it. Maybe it’s too bad that we haven’t taken a 6 credit CLEP on patience and compassion. Is this really the way we would want to be treated as a uninformed newcomer? He's come to this forum as I stated above respectful and grateful for advice.

I’m not trying to start a fight or argument and likely won’t post on this thread again. Have a great day everyone and I look forward to hearing your results on A&I Lit motarded.

Ok, people get misunderstood, it happens. But, shouldn't it be the OP asking forgiveness for himself? Maybe saying "wow, oops, my bad, didn't mean it to come out that way?"

I'd posted a nice reply, and after finishing the thread, I didn't like the tone, so I edited my reply. BUT, you're right. Sometimes people need direction, so I'll post a new reply, which is actually better than the first one I'd typed out anyway

1. Post with manners so people feel compelled to help you.
2. Use the search feature first, and ask for clarification from others when you don't understand.
3. Be gracious and thank those who answer your questions.
4. When helped, return the favor.